Pickupers secrets
25-year-old Kraig Hendlmen – the cocky healthy fellow. It shaved under a zero the head is similar to a dome, two gold rings are inserted into the left ear. He lives in Redgrave (a county Essex), works as the manager on regional sales of one educational site and insanity on a seducing of girls. It has lost virginity in 11 years. And in 13 has started to be unsteady on night clubs and to “remove” girls. “I have developed own method, – he speaks. – I could be and with ugly women – approximately on 6 points, I would tell, and with models. When I wore out models in a cot lux” waited something for type “a vagina of a class, but in actual fact they differed nothing. Now any girl cannot work on me the beauty”.
There were times, when Hendlmen would reserve the stories about sex more than with 300 women (by last calculations) for drinking companions. However last two years the pseudo science of the seducing assuming weight of strategy and tasks, has come from the Western coast of America and has taken root into culture of a social life to the Great Britain. The book the “Game”, which author Strauss has described Nile, how certain “technologies” have transformed it into the superskilful temper, has urged on development of this subculture and its metamorphosis in the new industry. Across all Britain there were the societies of tempers also named “dens”. In largest of them, London, 3000 “characters” consist. Videoclips where men from the Central counties (judging by their reprimand) show possession of “game” on women, which it and do not suspect, have started to appear on YouTube, and each days off from Bournemouth to Glasgow groups of adherents are engaged in that at them is called “sarging” – easier speaking, get acquainted with girls.
Hendlmen’s gift has suddenly turned to the goods: the despaired men are ready to pay money for its lectures. Hendlmen costs, similar to the Superman, at a white board in a conference hall of a certain hotel in the centre of Glasgow. I belong to group of “students”, each of which has laid out 300 pounds for the course calculated on a week end, called by “Educational camp”. The course is offered by firm Alpha Interactions. (By the way, 300 pounds it is still rather cheap: many courses of a seducing will manage to you in one thousand pounds or is even more expensive.) Hendlmen combines the basic work with a post of the director of the company, and also is one of six instructors in seduction who will devote us in secrets of masters of a pickup (serious pikupers name Pick-Up Artist, in abbreviated form PUA). “When you come nearer to it, imagine, that to you the most beautiful woman in club” has just made minet, – speaks Hendlmen. We summarise.
One of students – Stewart – the 28-year-old sinewy worker of factory of TVs in Cumberland. “I had no special success at girls, – he speaks to me later. – I usually hesitated”. Stewart already long time is at war with own shyness; outwardly it is expressed that gloomy expression has grown to his face. Stewart passes a curriculum in third time and feels, that has a little promoted. It has ceased to carry dark clothes, its hairdress can be described now accurately. It began to carry T-shorts of radiant colouring. “Girls to me last more”, – he speaks.
And here “Junior” – the 23-year-old student-engineer from Glasgow, sitting in a free pose at the distant end of a table – is dressed in jeans and jacket with a hood. Junior is a pseudonym under which it appears at community forums. Instructors too have the nicknames serving by their trade mark in the industry of seduction. Hendlmen also it is known as Craze, the others call Gem, Ice Dragon, Demo, Mist and Skippy.
Junior, not wished to open the original name, – the affable and nice guy, but only few girls notice it. He thought, that at university revelry of uncontrollable passions will reign. “On my course engineering was studied by four beautiful girls, – he speaks is sad. – four of 50 persons. And two of them have left from the first course”.
The senior from students – Garret. Its work concerns financial services. It has arrived by the car already from Danfermlain. Garret is 30 years old, in appearance it is similar to a plush bear. “It was not simple at me year two constant girls”, – it explains. Then the friend has allowed to it to esteem “Game”. “I do not aspire to have a harem, – he speaks. – I simply wish to leave for a threshold, to communicate to people, to get relations”.
“The educational camp” opens in the evening on Friday: our instructors show the abilities in “field conditions” – in bars and restaurants. On Saturday we gather in a hotel conference hall for lectures which five hours last. Instructors tell in the spirit of a confession as the doctrine which they are going to transfer to us, has immensely changed their life. “You good fellows, that here have come, – speaks Mist.-You have taken the first step telling:” With my life something not so “. Hm… It already starts to look like meeting” Anonymous alcoholics “.
Apparently, a key in that all of us assumed in advance that attracts women to us. “What the girl did, assume, that it finds you attractive, – explains Mist. – She talks to me – means, I like it. It touches a chain at me on a neck – means, I like it. Start with these assumptions, and you perfectly will consult”.
We should master fear to come nearer to women, which as to us explain, is something like the hungover syndrome which has remained from earlier stage of evolution. “Our bodies – precisely out-of-date operational systems, – speaks Mist. – We – Windows 98 though we should work on Vista”.
Word takes Alexander Lock, the 26-year-old adviser for recruiting from Hertfordshir (in world PUA it is known as Gem). “And what, if I to you will tell, what less 100 years ago there was no white loaf? – He speaks, doing a pause that we could think over this amazing fact. – here is how the world” quickly varies.
Lock’s shirt is half unbuttoned, so the medallion in the form of heart is visible, its hair are fashionably laid – the poured out Mediterranean magnate-ship-owner next morning after cheerful night. Gem explains the concept, referring to Richard Doukinsa’s book “Selfish gene” – one of three books which, as he said, have learnt him “to everything, that I know about a pickup”. We should reject our primitive fear, he speaks, and to realise, that women give to appearance of less value, than the man. “At me pathological adiposity, – it continues. – every day when I appear in a society, I deny representation about as if women give importance of appearance”.
Then we pass to role games where we maintain propensity of women to ugly men, pretending to be as if we work on interesting work and we live an interesting life. The first to a board leaves Garret. “I work in the field of financial services, – he speaks. – I know, that it seems boring, but I have changed recently work, and it actually interesting”.
28-year-old Ice Dragon – the student studying the law and psychology, breaks it: “It not seems boring. You work in sphere of the finance. The finance is money. Try to lean against it”.
“You help people to put things in order with their finance”, – speaks Craze.
“Not absolutely, – explains Garret. – I have no business with clients”.
“You work in the company which helps people, – declares Craze. – you help people to conduct that way of life to which they aspire”.
We convince ourselves that we are “valuable people”, and then we are trained in social mechanisms of successful seduction, following approximately on that way which is described in “Game”. Firm Alpha Interactions not affiliated with Nile Strauss or someone else from the main gurus of a pickup who have developed these methods; more likely it belongs to number of those tens companies, which have arisen to satisfy a growing demand for trainers.
Strauss too has responded: “Game” partly was a fruit of journalistic investigation – it, so to say, has taken root into a certain secret society and has told about it to the world, but also it is possible to read it as the grant on self-improvement. Strauss’s new book – “Game rules” is some kind of the seducing self-instruction manual, the step-by-step instruction “How to find private life”.
Strauss ambiguously concerns the industry to which creation promoted. He says, that when it has gone for the first time on a seminar on a pickup, “it was possible to consider the guru on fingers of one hand”. “And now all domain names in which there is a word alpha, are occupied, – it continues. Is very young industry. Some of these guys yet do not guarantee quality”.
As Strauss predicts, the present boom of a pickup will appear or “a fleeting stain on the screen of a radar of pop culture”, or the beginning “new movement of the self-improvement, similar enough to the fitness industry”.
Ross Jeffris – the person whom Strauss and all other “gurus” recognise as the father of modern movement of seduction, believes, that there is an enormous secondary market which yet it was not possible to reach. “At present”, – speaks Jeffris, the seducing market is basically “men who cannot entice any woman at all. The enormous secondary market which he expects, is” men who wish to replace the present model with more high quality – those who lives with women who do not like them, and force itself to remain with them “.
Jeffris was the assistant to the lawyer, and then, on its own expression, “the author of awful comedies” is it stood up for a film “All of them still call me Bruce” 1987. In 1988, after the long period of contemplation in desert – differently, facing failures in romantic relations, – it, precisely John Krestitel, has announced a rescue way to all lonely men – a method, which itself named “the High-speed seducing”. In it it was used NLP – nejro-linguistic programming: idea, that subconsciousness of associates can be manipulated by means of words, suggestion and gestures. It is excessive to mention, that the method has been regarded ambiguously: it seemed to some, that it not many is better than rape under the influence of a drug. Jeffris says, that its method the given man – not in their taste releases women from under a yoke of the social restrictions inspiring to them, that. ” The consciousness of the woman has a level on which it has rich imagination and wishes to feel these things “, – he has told to me by phone from California. (Having approached to phone, he at first has answered on-shvedski.” Excuse, I thought, she is my girl “, – it has explained. To it of 19 years, she has thrown the” the 25-year-old guy growth of 6 foots of 6 inches with appearance of the model “for the sake of Jeffris, which in the 49 years definitely not a handsome man.” Here see! It really works “, – he speaks.)
In the evening on Saturday the young men, not capable to entice women, – men whom Ross Jeffris names the “illegitimate children”, – go on independent hunting to Glasgow. In the overflowed bar us send “to open complete sets” (the complete set the company of people is called). On idea, movement pikapers should reduce people together, but terminology at it to strangeness dehumanized : continuous “field tests”, “purchase temperatures”, “technologies” and a heap of abbreviations.
Sometimes to us prompt a phrase to start conversation: to me order to approach to a little table at which the company sits, and to ask, whether the truth, that to women in Glasgow it is more difficult to be risen. No”, – they politely answer. It is necessary to continue conversation, but to me comes to nothing mind.”E-e-e”, – I low. They with expectation look at me. To us have told what to ask to women a question behind a question is an error, it is better to make the disputable statements inducing to their discussion. Besides, we should change often a theme – this process is called” use of set of threads “that there was an impression, that we already communicate for a long time with this company. It seems to me, that I have already made this impression.
Later Junior has told to me, that at it the same problem. “Alpha Interactions System” avoids cramming of receptions – the preference is given to the “natural” approach. “It approaches instructors, – he speaks, – but we yet have not ripened for such”.
All instructors show ability absolutely not peculiar to British to get long conversations with the companies of strangers. After Ice Dragon has shown the possession of “game” on two ladies sitting on a sofa, I approach with it to ask, as it has seemed to them. “I the journalist, – explain I. – I write article about how to talk to girls in bars”.
“If you are not able to talk to girls, simply ask, a pancake, – 20-year-old Clara, the employee of tourist agency speaks. – it is not necessary to give out itself for the journalist”.
In a basement night club students should pass through “30 minutes in a hell”. During a half an hour they should remain “in the complete set”. If the company tears away them, students immediately push into another. Everyone copes with this problem the method. Stewart – precisely pilot-kamikaze: he does not fear prospects to break and burn down – on the contrary, such impression what exactly he and achieves it. Junior makes some success, but is upset because, that to all of them time order about. Garret almost all time will run it of instructors and tries to hide in a toilet; 20 minutes could be observed, how he scurried about on a dancing and by a rack, pursued by one or at once several instructors.
On Sunday, last day “Educational camp” us train in “Direct day game”. Students should approach to women in the street in broad daylight and say to them, that they are beautiful, or that at them beautiful eyes, or that they are beautifully dressed. “You give it an instant from cinema”, – explains Ice Dragon. Having paid a compliment, it is necessary to tell: “But I wish to learn, whether our individualities” will coincide.
That day anybody from students has not found to itself(himself) pair. At department store Junior has told to one lady, that it awfully likes its enormous pink coat. It has burst out laughing. At other department store it has approached to a certain girl and its girlfriend. Directly during that instant when he has said the beginning, their guys have come. “However, she very much was delighted”, – he speaks.
Be it and there was “an instant from cinema”, perhaps, from those films which scenarios composed Jeffris before women became “objects”, and rules of their seduction – something like the computer program.
December 21st, 2007 - Posted in Seduction and debauchery | |
